using VNC behind multiple routers

Justin Allen kalor "at"
Sat Jan 3 05:40:01 2004

I have VNC installed on my computer at home which is behind Linsys
router/firewall. I need to connect one of my Stepfathers computers which
is also behind a router/firewall. I do have SSH on my end but I don't
think he has it on his. How should I go about making this connection? I
can always send and have him set up SSH if it is necessary or