Configuration HELP PLEASE!

[Hawkins, Sara]

Hi ALL:

I have a question that I need help with.

We have decided that we are wanting to give our users a chance to reject our
connections and to know that we are connecting.

I've went all through the QuerySetting and tried them all.  I like the
prompt box, but the default is deny.  This is not a good option if the user
is away from their desk and we need in their computer.  Also, with those
setting if no one is logged in it AutoRejects.  If I set it to 2 or 1 it
doesn't give the prompt box and it just Auto Connects.  Is there possibly
another setting that I might use to either do a Query, Query, Accept?  Or
another way I can give my users a dialog box allowing them to reject us if
we are set to 2 or 1?

All help is appreciated.

Thanks,
Sara